Advice: My Husband Checks Out Other Women
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From a dudes perspective… ur husbands a DICK. If he makes it blatantly obvious then he has no reguard for u or ur feelings. Of course I do it from time 2 time, but its a habitual thing and I dont it 2 where its obvious and I dont do it all the time
I agree.
You are absolutely right ON! As a man, I have absolutely no interest in women in sweat shirt, jeans/pants, no make up, not feminine, not motherly or not family oriented[career oriented].
If women don’t put themselves under their men, it’s just constant fighting and arguing, who is going to compromise FIRST, huh?? Equality doesn’t tell you that, huh?? any relationship will fail this way…
I agree with her. It would be naive to believe that your husband will still feel the hots for you after seeing you wearing the same outfits. We’re naturally attracted to beautiful things. You can make the man stay, but you can’t stop his mind from wandering. The same is valid for women.
Why not? i don’t see a book that says i have to act in a certain way around my “wife” because it is so.
Morals and ideals is the reason we have a corrupt government, (example)
ooh, i get it now! even though you’re in a serious committing marriage, you cant relax in front of your own partner. i mean you’re wearing your comfortable clothes because you feel that you can relax in front of your partnet BUT it is excusable to let your partner look at other people. i mean who told you to relax and breath. you’re in a relationship where you need to constantly dress up for him. one slip and you cant blame him for checking other people out, right?
the only part that i agree with is the part about looking interesting women shoudlnt stop dressing up for men just cause theyre married on the rest this lady is really wrong and i dont know why they still have her biology? what are we still wild animals liveing off of instinct? we as men should respect women especially if we marry and if we dont like being with someone you should drop it and not carry on and possibly hurt someone even more
Of course. But the man shouldn’t stare so obviously then, and you can’t expect the woman to always look her best enough to keep his attention. It makes relationships harder when the man loves women.
you shouldn’t have to do anything for your man to stop looking at other women
ugh she talks through her teeth its so annoying
even if ur girl is rocking the sweats and her hair up in a ponytail, u dont stare at another female. that’s bullshit. same applies to ladies, if ur man is rocking the sweats or his favorite pair of jeans that u hate, that dont mean to stare at the young man in the business suit. (this does not apply to all scenarios). it’s ok to look and go back to what u r doing. ur mate should be secure in themselves to know u r not going anywhere, especially if the sex is GREAT!!!
here’s the bottom line to all the back and forth comments. men will look regardless of how beautiful, attractive, and sexy u r. it is a man thing, deal with. same applies to women, we look if a guy is nice, neat and handsome. (ladies dont even try it) but there is a thing called respect, its 1 thing to look while ur mate is around, its another to snatch ur neck around and stare like DAAAaaaaaammmn!!!! that is a complete lack of respect toward ur girl or man.
Because morals in relationships ruin it.
you’re complaining because your husband looks at other women too much?
Selfish aren’t you?
it’s impossible to keep yourself from looking at other women.
biologically, if we see better dressed women or doing anything, we’re going to stare because it’s sexually attractive, it has nothing to do with “HE NEGLECTS ME TO LOOK AT OTHER WOMEN”
drop the girl logic. And let it go.
Why would he marry you if he didn’t find YOU more interesting?
durr
I half agree with you. I don’t think that men have any excuse to run astray but at the same time I agree that a woman should not discontinue trying to look beautiful, flirting, or carrying on with her man just because she has him. Those were the things that caught his interest in the first place so why throw out what you already know works? Guys, be good…ladies, don’t get lazy, to continue doing the things that caught his eye in the first place the best you can.
I agree with you too. I’ve been in relationships where I’ve thought about being other girls and I’ve also been in relationships where the thought of being with someone else never even crossed my mind. Why? Because my relationship at that time wasnt lacking in anything. So all I’m saying is… dont try to say that men look at other women because they cant help it. If a man’s eyes is straying it is for a reason.
Yeah but do you avoid looking at other women because you really dont find them interesting or do you avoid looking at them out of respect for your girl?
I’d have to disagree. I’m a dude, but even I would say there is no excuse for men acting like this. The speaker is blaming the girl! Her only mistake might be that she picked a loser. A true man loves his wife and is faithful in intent and action. When we lower the standards to allow men to act like this then you can pretty much guess what the results will be.
@javonpryce i dnt agree but thts me, i neva look at other women when my gf is with me. cos i love her !
@kangryh yea she’s the worst person to take advice from !!!!!
You misunderstood the lady. She’s giving the woman advice on what to do if she wants her husband to check her out instead, such as dress sexy, flirt with him, etc. shes not assuming anything. watch the video again, like she says guys are visual creatures. we like to look.
Because if a man’s eyes stray its because the relationship he’s in is lacking on something. I’m a guy, you dont have to take her word alone for it. Just ask a bunch of random guys and see if they dont agree. Here’s a proverb… if you feed your dogs they wont go to someone else’s house to eat.
She’s back because she’s more qualified to give advice
why is she back! hmmph! >:(
good add…